having miscarried my 3rd child

I had a miscarriage in the middle of march and I lost my third child....I was too early in my pregnancy to know if the baby had been a boy or a girl. but before I had found out that I was pregnant I went to see my doctor in January right after my anniversary to get birth control and the nurse assigned to my doctors services that day didn't bother to give me a pregnancy test like my clinics protocol says to when getting birth control, so both my husband and I think that I was already pregnant and that the birth control affected the baby, because when I first found out that I was pregnant for the third time I had so many mixed emotions about the pregnancy and when I went for my ultrasound 3 weeks after finding out for sure that I was pregnant my ob dr said that she could see a whole lot and that she could only say that I was about 6wks and 2dys pregnant, and I know from experience that I should have been 8-9wks pregnant....I don't really think that much on the baby that I lost because I don't like to think about what might have been, and I hold that nurse responsible quite a bit for me having lost my baby because the nurse knew the clinics protocol and didn't give me the pregnancy test and when I started bleeding on March 17th, I called my doctor and she said that I was spotting and I told her what was going on and she said that I was spotting but that if I continued to bleed to go to the ER and see what was going on....turned out that I was still bleeding the next day and so I took my girls to a friends house and went to the hospital after telling my husband what I was going to do and they told me that I had lost my baby. a week after the miscarriage I followed up with my ob dr to make sure that I didn't have anything kleft over from the miscarriage because while at the hospital they put 4 or 5 little white pills into my uterus and sent me home to miscarry the baby, and my ob dr said that my baby died at 7wks , so that was really hard to be told even after the miscarriage

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05/08/14
thank you my husband took the miscarriage really hard because he got attached to the baby by just knowing that the baby was there
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    its some pills that they use to help a pregnant woman whose in labor kick start her labor up again after she stops contracting and they use them to help a woman expel her baby too after a miscarriage and the pain of the miscarriage hurt more than when I went into labor with my daughter Flor and had my labor induced with my daughter Isabella
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      thanks kim....I have been what I can to be strong for the girls for about the last 2 months and im thinking about trying again in the next month or 2 but im gonna wait to talk to my husband until he and I are alone with no kids and my mom around seeing that we now live with her....I really don't want her input at the moment about whether or not I should have another baby
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        Thanks Brande
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        About Katherine Aquino
        Current: Inglewood, California
        Birth: November 21
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