Should I tell my mom, before I do anything else ??

There are soooo many things to think about but I don't even know where to start! /-\​

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    11/09/13
    I would! Buy her a cupcake with a cute lil stork or something on it.. lol I don't know. I'm corny!
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    11/09/13
    Hahha I wanted to do the Preggo spaghetti sauce to:mom and dad were: Preggo :) hahah but that's a good one to, I'm soo scared how she will react I mean I'm 17.
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      8Theresa Gould
      I like both your ideas for revealing your pregnancy but I do think you should tell your mom.
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      11/09/13
      Ok Theresa thank you so so much any other suggestions on how to do it??
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      11/09/13
      He wants to get both of our parents together and tell them at the same time that way it's easier and we have each other for support!! But the thing is my step dad does not like him at all they barely talk 7 months later and rarely leves the house.. But we're planning on telling them next week!
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      11/09/13
      Of course I want her support but I don't know if I'll get it being that I'm 17 and pregnant... So Leah would you happen to have any suggestions on how I tell her??
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        Right, and thank you for your advice Mandi! And yes I am currently a senior, I do online schooling and I graduate in June. :) I also think serious is the way to go! But I was thinking about getting a job, my boyfriend has already been looking and we are engaged to for a while now before we found out! I am very very sorry for your lost Mandi. I am so so scared I don't know how to do it or even what to say... And what do you mean by explain how it happened ?
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        11/11/13
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        11/11/13
        Ok Mandi I see now thanks for that I think I might know what I'm going to say now !! Although this just got harder, it got real harder but I'm gonna do so I can head to he doctors and stuff like that... :) Thanks again Mandi.
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          Ok Lisa, thank you soo much I think that would help a lot actually! How old where you when you told your mom though, and how did she react??
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          Wow that's really awesome seems like you and you mom have a really close and amazing relationship! That's good for you though, I'm scared my mom would like hit me or something. But I did have a scare before and she just cried and was touching my belly, so we went to get some tests and negative and than my period came. Haha I think it will be kinda easy like that day but I don't know I am so so scared its not even funny!
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            When I got pregnant the first time I told my mom one night during one of our nightly conversations. I was scared to tell her because we were not married but I told her she was going to be a grandparent than promptly broke down on the phone so my boyfriend at the time who is my hubby now took over the conversation until I got myself pulled together enough to continue the conversation. The funny part of it was that I told her on her anniversary. I didn't realize what the date was at the time. It was only her second or third anniversary since my dad passed away. She later reminded me about her anniversary and told me it was a great anniversary present since dad wasn't there to celebrate their anniversary.

            With the second pregnancy we were headed up to my mom's for the weekend for my grandmothers funeral anyway. I did the pregnancy test about an hour before we left so we told her in person along with my brother and his girlfriend. We were all out in the yard playing with the dogs and my hubby asked me if I was going to tell them or if he should so I let him and he told them that our family was expanding again. Everybody's response was a bit mediocre but it wasn't the best timing in the world.
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              11/10/13
              Right I totally understand, I am very sorry for both of your losses and wish you and your family love and happiness! Congrats on the babies by the way.. How old are they now? Ok I'll just come right out with it to my mom than, in a serious manner that way she knows I'm gonna take this seriously and do what needs to be done!!
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              11/10/13
              Bryanna my littles are 4 years old and 7 months old.

              I hope things go well for you when you tell your mom. It is very scary telling mom that she is going to be a grandmother but no matter how it goes I think you will feel better having told her. I know things between me and my mom were really rough the whole way through my first pregnancy but once she got to see and hold Sami things were more normal again. I called my mom on the way to the hospital and she got there a few minutes after Sami was born and was standing outside the door to my room when they took Sami to the nursery to recover for short while from delivery because labor and delivery were so fast that birth was a bit of a shock to her. My mom got to see Sami before I did. Hubby was the first to see Sami.
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              11/10/13
              I know I think I would feel even worse about the situation! But you know it is a very very scary thing! :D
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              11/10/13
              :D I bet it was, haha.. So how was it when you told them?
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              11/10/13
              Oh it was awesome.. we've been married for 3 1/2 years and together for 10.. so to say they were ecstatic would be an understatement :) They also appreciated us waiting and making sure everything was okay. But in your situation I would definitely put high on the list telling your Mother and getting your insurance straightened out.. you want to be as responsible as you can about this baby from the get go.. it's a whole new LIFE you are welcoming.. a ton of choices will need to be made and you don't want to take any of them lightly.
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                11/10/13
                Yea I want to be sure I am to, we were thinking about waiting a couple of months, but I think I should tell my mom I feel as though she would be even more mad because of how long we waited to tell her and kept it from her. Thank you Meg I think that's really what I should do when I'm comfortable enough and ready to tell her what's going on. I think that should be soon!
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                  11/12/13
                  :D Thank you Mara and i just told my mom today actually! :)
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                  I am 17 I am a very fun, caring, outgoing, and easy person to talk to! I would say i am very strange, my likes include music, piercings, tattoos, Psychology, and so so much more. I believe that i am a mom to be and I am very very excited for this! :D