Let's talk about kids and dads.
When I came from the hospital my first wish was to take a shower, and I left my baby with my husband and my brother, first I heard they are talking to a kid, laughing and so on, then it was a silence and in a few seconds they started knocking on the door and screaming that the baby is pooping and they do not know what to do......))))))) But in a few days my husband woke up in the night before me and helped me with our baby))))))
From the get-go my husband has been a very hands on dad. Once we had three, he became even more hands on around the house. He is an awesome father and I could not have had eight children without his love and support. We parent together and are a team - not that it's perfect all the time, we have issues we have to work out like anyone else - but I cannot imagine having a family with anyone else because of how great he's been.