Bio moms dealing with step moms stories
I'm not 100% sure what this question is asking. But, my closest guess is how to handle it if your kids now have a step mom. I have not been in this situation, but I have been a step mom in the past and it is not an easy thing to do. Because my step kids were less than 10 years younger than me, I didn't have much room to play "mom".
But, regardless of that. I think that as long as everyone has the child's best interest at heart, things can work. I think parent's can let their emotions run away with them when a new love interest enters the picture. They may try to find a lot of reasons that those people shouldn't be in their kids lives. And while that may be true for some, I think people should always take a step back and think about the kids involved. If a child has an opportunity to have an extra parent that is looking out for them, you should be happy and feel so lucky that they do. Your feelings toward that person, or towards the other parent doesn't matter.