Stressed and depressed beyond imagine

Ok my 15 yr old son and my husband fight and argue constantly. Neither one will just stop and let it be. They just keep going until I either walk out (then it is instantly my son's fault) or I start to yell at both of them. The end result is always the same-me crying and feeling like I am going to explode. I do not know what to do anymore. It is all getting very overwhelming. Any advice?

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5Stephanie KirianTiffin, Ohio
    05/14/14
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    5Stephanie Kirian
    Hi Kim They will argue over everything!!!! I mean even that the grass is green! I have tried all I can think of
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      05/14/14
      Go in a quiet room and have time to yourself and let them deal with it on their own
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        05/14/14
        My 22 year old brother and my dad bicker all of the time too--they just butt heads about everything, and it drives my mom nuts just to listen to it all the time. My brother is still living at home, too, so if they are both home at the same time, it's just inevitable.

        I agree with Brande's suggestion--you need to sit down with at least one of them, if not both, and make sure that they know the effect their arguing is having over you. See if they can sort out if they are fighting about anything that really matters, and with hope, they can learn to identify when they are sweating the small stuff.
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          05/14/14
          5Stephanie Kirian
          Thanks ladies. But believe it or not I have tried. I feel stuck.
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            05/14/14
            5Stephanie Kirian
            Yes and like most men, my husband said they do not need it
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            Born: Tiffin, Ohio
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            I am 39, mother of 5, married, and feeling completely crazy 90%of the time