..making the effort!

Mamas.. do any of you have relationships in your life that you feel like YOU are always making the effort to stay in touch, take interest, make contact with the other person.. and yes, they reply or chat back.. but they never initiate keeping in touch? Maybe I am overly sensitive, but I always try to stay in touch and up to date with my one sister in law.. but she never makes the effort first.. it really urks me sometimes.. we seem to have a fine relationship.. but we are always taking interest in them much more than they care to keep in touch with us.. any of you ever have this happen?

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      05/14/14
      Definitely. My best friend and I used to be completely inseparable. Then, I had my son and couldn't go out like we used to. I became a bit of a hermit after he was born. He was born in October, and I just couldn't justify taking him out in the cold. I would invite her over, but she always had an excuse to decline my offer. Now, we talk maybe once a month and I see her only when I take the time to visit her at her apartment. The sad part? We only live ten minutes apart.
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      Aw.. that totally stinks.. I come to tell myself.. it's THEIR loss, not yours.. at least you tried! :) You seem beyond sweet.. she might regret it.. especially missing time with your sweet babe as a baby! I do pull back some.. but sadly I keep trying too.. they have a little one who is almost a year, Monroe's cousin.. so you would think she might like to relate since we both have babies.. but sigh! Thanks though, much appreciated just to chat about it :)
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        I completely understand! We were pregnant together about 3 years ago. She was at work with me when I miscarried, and three days later she lost her pregnancy as well. I thought after going through that together, nothing could come between us. She has two little boys that are 6 and 4, and I love them like they were my blood nephews. I miss them, and I hope she comes to her senses soon. Hang in there. I'm sure you'll win her over in the end! :D
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