After birth attraction..
After you gave birth, did your significant other loose any sort of attraction towards you? I guess what I am trying to ask is, did your significant other still find you attractive and want to be intimate with you? Or did they think that after giving birth your body was not the same and they were not as attracted to you as you once were?
I think a lot of it comes from our own brains. I think we think we're a lot worse than we really are and assume our guys feel the same way. My bf is so quiet by nature so I'm always thinking that he's thinking the worst, when really he's probably just thinking about the car or something.
I think communication right now is critical. That if you feel like you're not at your best, you should say so. If he feels differently and needs some time, he should have that. I think that sometimes women get so wrapped up in what we've just been through that we don't allow our SO's to feel some different emotions, too.
I guess it's just all in the way we look at it... But you shouldn't kill yourself so that he feels better. If you aren't what he wants, nothing you do can make it different. Be there for your boy, be there for yourself.