Disappointed...

So last night I asked my husband if he minded having a late dinner after we put the boy to be for the night. He said it sounded great...we did it from time to time so that we have time to just feel like a normal couple again. He came home from work screaming of starvation and wants dinner now. I know he doesn't understand that the only perso I have to talk to most days is a one year old...that's why I always ask him before hand of we can do this...I was really looking forward to it. Did my hair and makeup an everything...sometimes I feel like an invisible mommy :-/ he's not normally like this either which makes it hard cause I'm used to him being so much more understanding. I know it seems like such a small thing, but I don't ask for a lot so the small things become even more important...oh well...maybe next time.

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    05/19/14
    Aw Amy... that does stink :( Do you think he had a bad day at work? In a bad mood? It is so hard sometimes to think about being in the other spouses shoes.. even for me and my husband.. they are gone all day, providing, working hard and want to come home and rest.. whereas we have been with a baby all day and are dying and looking forward to interaction with our sweet guys.. it's hard to stay open and honest.. sometimes what works for us is my hubby just having a bit after he gets home to unwind, take a shower, etc.. and then he can get into socialization mode more!
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      05/19/14
      Nah...he just is...idk lol He came home and worked out then called his buddy to tell him about his workout...they are both entering the police academy around the same time if my husband passes his physical test next month. So I understand that he is just focused on other things right now which is ok because in the long run it will better our lives. I just wanted to not have to share my dinner with the little guy! Lol
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        05/19/14
        Well just having a snack was our plan cause I get cranky too.
        But he has always wanted to either be in the military or be on the force. His friend is trying to be a police officer and my husband is going to be a state Trooper.
        And dinner was super good, even if it didn't go as I had planned :-)
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        05/19/14
        Pork chops, mashed potatoes and sugar snap peas...so good!
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        About Amy
        Birth: September 14
        On Moms.com since: Mar 19, 2014
        Stay at home wife and Mom. I have an older step son that is an amazing young man. My husband and myself have a little boy and newborn girl. Balancing life isn't always easy but it's always worth it :-)