So remember me telling you all about that vacation? Well me and my friend talked about it yesterday and Holy cow of Holy cows....she expected me to pay for food for 5 people as well as gas in her car there and back. (that's 140 both ways). I didn't know i had that much money for one...and for another....Why would you agree to something when you knew you were bad with money and couldn't pay for anything?
Honestly i know that she had some issues but we've been talking and planning this for months...talking since December and planning since March. I asked her where all her money went and she said " i dont have grocery money this week, how am i supposed to do that"
I know she had some extenuating circumstances and some family issues but honestly your in your 30's...if i can manage a strict budget with no familial support, no child support, and no government assistance.. Then she who gets government assistance, child support, familial monetary support and help from friends ( i paid half her electric bill 2 months ago...that right there should have clued me in to the problem) should be able to manage saving up for your half of vacation expenses.
But sadly....this is not true apparently. I'm so mad i could scream. Not only that...she's mad at me for asking on facebook if anyone wanted to go with me since she told me she couldnt do it. She told me today....it was disrespectful to her.....who knew.....*shrugs*
Vote for me people....do i cancel or keep trying to find someone to go with me...or try to go myself and see if we cant get a cheaper room?