Did or do you have a birth plan?
I didn't really have a birth plan with my oldest. Honestly, I was along for the ride and didn't feel the need to make choices beyond which doctor to use.
BOY did that change after I went through birth. Things were different the second time around!
I didn't have huge expectations of how things would go, but I knew this time what I did and didn't want. I realized I had options and that I wasn't just along for the ride. And the second labor and delivery was so much better. Neither were terrible, but just different.
What do you think of this article about birth plans?