Tips on raising spirited boys

I don't know if it's just my spirited boys or what, but they need more attention. More one on one attention the better it seems. They have to know you are paying attention to them. Eye contact, etc. They also need more affirmation and praise for some reason. Lots of patience and activity are in order as well.

What other tips can you add to the list because I'm drawing a blank?!

8Theresa GouldChicago, Illinois
Moms Expertise
    4Santana Ferrell
    My son is Very Spirited. do they ever slow down?
    About Theresa Gould
    Current: Chicago, Illinois
    Birth: August 10
    On since: Aug 5, 2013
    ***Baby Team Leader*** I have been married for over 20 years. My husband and I have eight children ages 18 down to 4 years old. We use to live in Chicago but now live in Canada. I own