does your husband help you with your child?

when you ask them do they help you i mean more than a few minutes or do they make excuses and avoid helping..my husband i asked him to watch over our little one so i can sell some things online but when i go see why my baby is crying i see him lying on the floor asleep and i get so upset that i pick up my little one he only wanted to go to sleep ...nap time....then he gets upset and wants to sleep on the couch i tell him do what you like i was pissed off i wanted a little moment to do something but is it too difficult to ask of them..currently my baby is now asleep and i can do what i needed to do

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    05/28/14
    yea sometimes my husband does the same thing..there guys they cant handle a child.they dont know what to do.god gaves us womens the power to manage our house and our kids.man where mad to work and bring money to the house...now some man are different...just talk to him tell him that u need time by your self and you need sometimes atleast 1 hour to your self,it helps alot..i tell that to my husband and he understands :}
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    i did at the beginning he did help me but as time passed he had a hard time with the baby his answer was that he works all day and he wants to come home an rest but doesnt he think taking care of a baby is work too im a stay home mom i was supposed to have graduated and have a degree but im here taking care of our son.he does help me for a couple of minutes but not an hour
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    05/28/14
    i wish i could do that but i cant i have been out for a few minutes to the gas station but by the time i am paying hes already calling me to see if im on my way back ...his answer was that our baby is fussy
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    05/28/14
    i done the shower too but they both end up in the bathroom too
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    05/28/14
    wow i wish mine was like that
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      05/28/14
      the last time he took care of our son is when i went to WALMART i didnt take long but by the time i got there he was calling me that our son was fussy and he wanted me to go home already .....he was supposed to have gone but he didnt feel like it and we needed baby formula for the night when i got home the baby was fine all that it was ...he was hungry and needed a diaper change besides i didnt take long at walmart only 40 minutes but according to him it was more than an hour,,,,now every time i go to HEB oR Walmart i have to take my son with me eventhough he could take care of him while im gone
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      05/28/14
      thank you
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      I'm a first time mom of one sweet baby boy its been quite the journey of a lifetime everything changes when you have a baby and i wouldn't change it