Sometimes your normal is not actually normal.

I am still learning how to deal with Bub's aspergers. Now don't mistake the title for me saying he is abnormal, he is perfectly normal for who he is and I love every thing about him. What I am talking about is parenting behaviors that stem from being in the battle zone, so to speak.

Today during Bub's counseling session his counselor VERY kindly called me out on the fact that I tend to speak for Bub without even thinking about it. Not always, but I do this mostly when I can tell he is uncomfortable in a situation. This is my normal, most parents don't like to see their children uncomfortable. I do understand now though that I have to allow us both to be uncomfortable in order for him to grow as a person.

So, do you have any parenting things that are probably not average parenting techniques, but just what you use while in the trenches of parenting because it WORKS?

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    About Melissa
    Birth: December 31
    On since: Mar 3, 2014
    I am a single mom of two fantastic kiddos that I love to pieces. Currently in school working towards my teaching degree. You can find me most days on when I am not here chit chatting! :)