Ridiculous-mostly venting here
it's a long drawn out battle why daughter lives with her grandparents... But to make it short and keep to the point-she is being raised a spoiled rotten brat (there are no other words) to the point where I have a hard time putting up with her attitude for the four day weekends, let alone any longer. My two year old is showing more maturity and compassion than my nine year old!
Andrew was screaming last night because he couldn't get to me to cuddle-she sat there and laughed at him then proceeded to throw a fit because I made her get down-BECAUSE she laughed at him.
This morning Adrianna woke up at 3, got mad because I told her she needed to sit on the couch and be quiet while I talked to Dennis. She is old enough to understand adults need some adult time. Then she got mad I told her I was going back to sleep after he went to work. Eva woke up at five, gave me a kiss on the couch and went to play quietly.
I know that it's because she misses and wants the attention-but she needs to get it through her head that she's not the only thing on the planet.
It doesn't hit me as hard when she's just here for the short time-but the month long visits in the summer.... I feel like I'm going to go crazy.
Eva pretty much refuses to play with her.. Andrew keeps telling Eva 'I know she's mean, but you don't have to play with her, just ignore her, she'll leave you alone.'. If this were any other child I wouldn't make them be around her because of her attitude. It breaks my heart and makes me feel like a horrible mommy...
We were considering taking them back to court for custody when she turns 10-that's when the courts would ask her.. But she doesn't want to live here-there's rules and other kids.