Im done

Sam and Lacy never listen. They think that everything should be done for them that they are above the stinking rules. They think they have to listen to dad's girlfriend before listening to mommy. Im about to the point that im going to sign over custody. I dont know how much more i can handle

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4Santana FerrellColumbus, Ohio
    06/01/14
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    06/01/14
    4Santana Ferrell
    We have been split up since before either one could remember. His girlfriend lets them have run of the house and i am a bit stricter but still allow fun. Grounding them and tme outs just dont work anymore. i have taken literally everything away from them except for beds clothes and food.
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      06/01/14
      4Santana Ferrell
      I just wish they would listen even some of the time. They have gotten to the point where they never listen to me unless there is something in it for them.
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        06/01/14
        4Santana Ferrell
        They want video games sprinkler time shopping. Maybe i should sit them down and have a meeting. Im tired of yelling. I dont want to yell but it is the same thing day after day.
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          06/01/14
          4Santana Ferrell
          Thank you Debi
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            06/01/14
            4Santana Ferrell
            Thank you Tabitha. That is exactly what im dealing with times 2 lol
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            06/01/14
            4Santana Ferrell
            school work is a great idea
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              06/01/14
              4Santana Ferrell
              I will take any advice i can get
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                06/01/14
                4Santana Ferrell
                nope none
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                  06/01/14
                  4Santana Ferrell
                  they just tune me out i feel like i have to raise my voice take things away and hold their face in my hands to get them to listen.
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                    06/01/14
                    4Santana Ferrell
                    im glad im not the only one
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                      06/01/14
                      4Santana Ferrell
                      i get on to them all the time for not showing respect
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                        06/01/14
                        4Santana Ferrell
                        I was so upset tonight i gave them leftovers and sent them to bed
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                          06/01/14
                          4Santana Ferrell
                          I sure hope. I have been holding the baby at least with her i cant get mad yet lol
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                            06/01/14
                            4Santana Ferrell
                            i will try it
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                              06/01/14
                              4Santana Ferrell
                              Thank you. Im glad there are ladies here i can vent to and dot look down on me
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                              About Santana Ferrell
                              Born: Columbus, Ohio
                              Current: Columbus, Ohio
                              Birth: November 26
                              On Moms.com since: Mar 27, 2014
                              I am a mom of 4 wonderful children. i would'nt change anything