how did you find time for you and your hubby ....
after the baby whatt did you doo too spice thing up again like before baby was born
It wasn't easy, for sure. We did things like talk, massage each other, watch TV together... nothing that was overly demanding since we were both up to our ears in demands from a sweet baby. We just hung out together and went through the experience of parenting together. It made us bond in a different and neat way.
It was not easy in any way shape or form. It takes time and hard work. We did not have alone time until the baby would go to sleep. And then we would either lay next to each or we would try and have dinner or watch a movie. I think it takes a few months until the baby is older until you are able to do the same things that you used to. But like Melissa said, it helps bond you going through this experience together and I think that is the best feeling ever, that understanding of one another.
I think that physical intimacy is important, even if it's not to DTD. Touching helps you to stay connected, so hug, massage, kiss, and hold hands.