Personal for Mothers only... not children read...
During the type when I was pregnant with Ivy... I notice that my sexual desire has went away. Joe say I was beautiful and sexy, but I found out a lot of stuff he been doing that I feel like I just wanna leave him alone and never want to get married to him. I am not horny or feeling like I should be sexy. Joe is acting like he don't wanna help me around and it like hard for him to even look for a job. I am multitasking and my own dad and sister is looking at me and thinking that he need to wake up before I leave him. I got a lot to do and he want sex like we used to, but we have a daughter now....
I just saying what should I do and I need support really bad...
My sexual desire is still very very low.
He finally finally got a job.
My family still looks down their noses at us (Just know, it will always happen. They do as like "harsh love" to "encourage" us to get our lives on track. It just stresses us out.)
Make time for dates or alone times. You'll remember why he loved you :)
All men get lazy. Gary is very lazy with helping me, makes me feel like I am a burden when I ask for help.
But everything WILL be okay. Try to ignore family and brush what they say off. It will come to you. Just do what is right for your family now! Just like, looking for your phone frantically until you give up exhausted and angry; sitting down then you go "oh there it is duh!" As you spot it in plain sight (lol maybe that's just me). Think of that phone as your happy ending. Stop stressing and sit down :) let it come to you. I know it will be hard and they both will test your strength but girl, you have it in you! That lioness, that superwoman is in there! She will hold you together even when you are on your knees praying it be over already. You'll still manage to find your feet and carry on. All moms have that strength, that's what makes us qualified to be a parent. If we didn't have that strength, gosh help our children XD would they even function properly? Lol
It sounds like you don't, and in your heart you already know it. You said he did some things that you are obviously reacting too emotionally and physically. I can tell you when I lost my sex drive I thought it was all me, but in retrospect I know it wasn't, at all. It was my body responding to what my mind knew.