Time to wish him luck... maybe?
My husband hasn't loved his job for awhile now and has an interview with a new company this afternoon. The new job would come with a new schedule that I'm not crazy about so I'm feeling conflicted. On one hand, I really want him to be happy with the work he is doing because I know it would be good for him... so I hope he gets it... on the other hand, getting the job means I would be on my own with the kids much more frequently... so the selfish part of me hopes he doesn't get it and stays where he is.
how do you react when you know something will be good for someone else, but it might not be so great for you?
I try to look at it this way. We're one now. What benefits him benefits me and Charlie either directly or indirectly. That unconditional love that I have from him is returned to him by me wanting him to be happy.