cant decide for me but..

Ok so I am 21 yrs young with 3 beautiful babies. They have been with me since day one. Their dad and I split in 2012 so now its just me and the kids...ah that's another one situation. I have an amazing dad & step mom that help me out as much as they can and then some. I want to be here for my kids but feel like I'm not ever going to get anywhere only working one job at minimum wage. I feel selfish but then I feel clueless....my mind jumps back and forth I want to be here for my kids all the time all day everyday but I ha e to work and do things for our lives to move forward but if I start getting on a roll and get it going in always really super tired and my kids r like MOM!!! but I do what I do for them....this if ur not catching me is how my mind goes on the daily....anyways my dad has offered for the kids to live with them so I can get things going but i feel like it would b good so i can work toward a future for myself and my kids but then i feel like all i am doing is lookin like a P.O.S mom who is letting someone else raise my kids in in such a rut i just honestly want to b the mom i need to be and provide for my kids now and see that they have a good future...right now i can't even get into our own house it very frustrating i feel things will b better in our own home cause things can then go how i want them n i won't have to compromise to fit the needs of others !!! I probably just sound stupid huh ?

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cheneeCanby, Oregon
    06/11/14
    8Theresa Gould
    No, you don't sound stupid, Chenee. You sound like a mom who loves her children and wants to do what's best for them and yourself. Would you live with your dad too? What kind of plan are you thinking? Going back to school? A second job? Being a parent is hard enough but being a single parent is even harder. I am glad you have the help and support of your dad and step mom, what a blessing!
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    06/11/14
    chenee
    Well when we first got here to Oregon we lived with them and that didn't go so well now I'm staying with another fam member.
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    06/11/14
    chenee
    I want to go to school and I still need to work to build up for the things we need or the military
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      06/11/14
      You don't sound stupid at all. You sound like a regular mom who is stressed out about how she is going to handle things.

      Let's say your dad and step mom do take the kids for a bit, what would you do different that would make your future and your kids future better? You and I both know that a dead end job isn't ever going to put you in a better place. Not tomorrow and not next year.

      If you are going to do something like that make sure it's for a really good reason. Look into school, either university or trade. Something to better your life for your children.

      HUGS sweetie.
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      About chenee
      Born: Konawa, Oklahoma
      Current: Canby, Oregon
      Birth: August 10
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      I think i have finally figured out my profile. i am 21 with three kids ages 5,3,2 at first it said something else idk how but i thought i did all my stuff the first day. ha anyways .....
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