cant decide for me but..
Ok so I am 21 yrs young with 3 beautiful babies. They have been with me since day one. Their dad and I split in 2012 so now its just me and the kids...ah that's another one situation. I have an amazing dad & step mom that help me out as much as they can and then some. I want to be here for my kids but feel like I'm not ever going to get anywhere only working one job at minimum wage. I feel selfish but then I feel clueless....my mind jumps back and forth I want to be here for my kids all the time all day everyday but I ha e to work and do things for our lives to move forward but if I start getting on a roll and get it going in always really super tired and my kids r like MOM!!! but I do what I do for them....this if ur not catching me is how my mind goes on the daily....anyways my dad has offered for the kids to live with them so I can get things going but i feel like it would b good so i can work toward a future for myself and my kids but then i feel like all i am doing is lookin like a P.O.S mom who is letting someone else raise my kids in in such a rut i just honestly want to b the mom i need to be and provide for my kids now and see that they have a good future...right now i can't even get into our own house it very frustrating i feel things will b better in our own home cause things can then go how i want them n i won't have to compromise to fit the needs of others !!! I probably just sound stupid huh ?
Let's say your dad and step mom do take the kids for a bit, what would you do different that would make your future and your kids future better? You and I both know that a dead end job isn't ever going to put you in a better place. Not tomorrow and not next year.
If you are going to do something like that make sure it's for a really good reason. Look into school, either university or trade. Something to better your life for your children.