Did you have a shower for your second child
No. I only had a baby shower for my first baby. My friends and family only have a baby shower for the first baby. They feel that you should already have most of what you need for the second baby left over from the first. If the baby is a different gender they usually send present of clothes and gender specific items.
A few of my friends have had "diaper showers" or a "sprinkle" which is a way to celebrate the birth of the baby without asking people for gifts.