Early Early in the morning

At 1am and 3am I was watching Opera theater and Musical Theater with Joe.. it was us time.. this make it the 4th night that he ask for sex.. I just want to enjoy one day and go to sleep without asking for sex all the time... I am getting frustrated.. I don't have time for myself no more. I got online school, cleaning, cooking, looking for a job, and take care of Ivy.. I have a lot to do.

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06/13/14
I'd love to tell you to handle him a bottle of lotion and box of tissues, but please don't do that. ;)

One thing I have found is that men do pretty wel with being told what they are doing right. If he is helping out in the house let him know you appreciate it. If he is helping out and being a good parenting partner let him know that you love him for that. Keep encouraging him to do the things you want him to do and maybe he will step up and you won't be so tired.
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    06/13/14
    8Theresa Gould
    I agree with Melissa. Talk to him.
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    06/13/14
    8Theresa Gould
    If he's anything like my husband, he may not pick up on what is obvious to us and will need you to share with him what is going on.
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    06/13/14
    8Theresa Gould
    Men can have their own timelines, completely different from ours. Also, young dad's (or new ones) have as much to learn as we do. My husband didn't get the helping out part until we had our third and that was out of necessity because I couldn't do everything on my own anymore, or at least effectively. Be patient with him. If it is truly laziness, I'm not sure you can force him to change. Believe me I tried to change my husband. I had to allow him to grow and change into the man he needed to be for me and our children. It took him sometime but he got there. Hang in there. If you have to do so much alone, take one thing at a time and be sure to take time for yourself and what you enjoy too.
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