Me and my youngest sons father have been having a lot of communication problems and I have began to think he some what resents me for choices be has made.... I'm not sure this is the right place to ask for advice or to even just vent. I put my kids first always, no questions about it. It's just with having a long, horrible, devastating relationship before; that did ultimately bless my life with my oldest son and daughter. Makes for a hard place for him being in their life as long as his other children he is away from.... I want for this to work I just don't know how much longer me sugar coating things for his feelings to be protected, I can do especially since mine aren't being heard.
I think wanting something to work is the most important. The rest you can both work through if you give it time, are open with each other, and are both wanting things to work out then you can do it. Take some time and really think about what you think is best for you and all three of your children, and go from there. We are here for you mama!
I agree with Beth that wanting it work is important. If you both care about each other and want to be with each other you can sit down and work it out. Sugar coating things rarely does any good. You don't have to be mean about things, but you need to tell him how it is. I always found that writing a letter works well because it takes the emotion out of the conversation.