So the past few days i have been gettinf stricter and mean what i say.
Last night logan was warned 3times by me to stop jumping on couch and settle down. After the 3rd warning i told him if he jumped and couldnt control himself he can go in his room until bed time snack. Well he tested me and jumped and i told him to go in his room. He went to the stairs and walked up to stairs. Now i yelled and said get up to your room. He didnt listen so i put vince down and walked logan the rest of the way to his room. After vince was done i heard logan banging on his door in aggression. So i walked up there an said now he was going to bed without cartoons and snack. I brushed his teeth and tucked him in. After haiden was done i helped haiden brush his teeth and told logan again to lay down. He finally did after an hr of screaming.
Now today vince had therpy so i told haiden and logan to play upstairs. They did. After vincents therpy i changed his diaper and put him in bed. I walked upstairs and asked nicely for them to clean up the hallway as it was no way to walk. They argued and fought me and refused. I told them nicely to clean up. After 3mins of letting them clean up they argued and wouldnt clean up. So i said fine go to your rooms and i will get a bag and clean it up and this weekend we will take those toys to goodwill. Then all of a sudden came water works and the will to clean. But i told them it was to late to try cuz of arguing and fighting me over it before. I put them in their rooms, got a garabage bag and put all the toys that were on the floor in it. After i was done went into haiden room and he still said he didnt make the mess and thst logan did. I said to him to bad you were playing with it as well and i asked to many times to clean up or there was a conseqence. I shut his door.
I did the same for logan but logan clearly was more upset. But i told logan then he should of listened instead of arguing and fightingz