Do you wear them more than once?
Before washing, do you wear your jeans more than once? How about your bra? Is it the same for your kids o0r do you wash theirs every time they wear them?
I give jeans and bras both two wears before they get washed. For jeans with the kids it's every time. I couldn't tell you about Mini's bras, it's whenever she brings them to be washed.