Ok so my son has a friends at school and I always deal with Lelynn's play dates ect. being my husband works and my mom always did ours. Well this little boys father deals with everything his mom don't do anything. Ive been baby sitting him recently and his dad said he was going to get me passes to go to the pool tomorrow while he was at work because Im watching his little boy again so I said ok. Well when he picked up his son he told me he is getting off work half day and I could just meet him up at pool with all the kids. Well I feel uncomfortable hanging with a guy when im happily married. I have a friend who is suppose to meet me up their with her kids also should I go or not. Not to mention he is as old as my dad.