Do you believe things should always be 50/50 with siblings?
One thing I have learned over the years is that things simply cannot be even between kids at all times. I could drive myself crazy trying to make everything perfectly even as far as time, money and even the last cookie in the package. I won't do that to myself though, it's just silly.
Instead I make sure they both feel loved, safe, nurtured and that they understand that sometimes the other one may get more attention or whatever because at that moment they NEED it.
How do you feel about this topic?