Killing baby fever
I was done after my son, realistically. I had a tubal ligation and felt very sure of my choice.
I think most of us go through a desire for one more at least once even when we are so sure about being done. I get that twinge too, but it's not anything that I really want.
What I do is remind myself WHY I stopped when I did. My reasons were financial mostly, I wanted to stop at a point where I felt comfortable with being able to afford things that I wanted for my kids and being able to have a lifestyle that I wanted to give them. I have never regretted it.
The only twinge I get is thinking about the what if's, and I just don't indulge those any more.
How do you deal with baby fever?