So dang confused
I am so dang confused right now. I am thinking about signing my rights over to my daughter's father (hubby) because I don't feel like I am doing a good job rasining her, wanting to do it any more I don't know, and I don't think I am in love with him any more. Don't get me wrong, I love him because he is my daughter's father, but I am not IN love with him anymore. I just don't know what to do.
When I started talking to him, I thought it was just going to be a small fling because I just got out of a nasty relationship with a guy that was hitting me and all that. So I was like what the hell lets have a small fling. Then not even 2 months after we hung out the first time, I come up pregnant.
I just don't know how to put how I am feeling right now. That is why I am reaching out to you ladies for some help. I don't have my mother around to help me. I am surprised if I talk to her once every 6 months. Not sure if anyone else has been through the feelings I am having right now or if it because my body is getting used to getting off my birth control shot, my cycle coming out of nowhere, or what. If you can ladies, please try to help as much as you can??
Please talk to your doctor.
I can also relate to not having that bond with mom. She and I are so different in our ideals and life styles. My mom is not a good person to talk with as she's given me bad advice in the past.
All the feelings you're feeling are real, and I validate them :-) Everyone is different, our chemical make up is different, our reactions are different, etc. You have a right to feel whatever you're feeling even though things appear confusing right now.
I echo everyone's recommendations on here to seek counseling and to also see your medical doctor to rule out anything physical that could be causing these emotions, such as a thyroid problem. Whether it be depression or a thyroid issue, they're all treatable and best handled early on.
I'm glad you reached out to us as we're all here to help one another. Good luck and keep us posted!
My mother and I had a drinking relationship. That is all it was. Once I got pregnant, and moved out, it was never the same with her.
Yes your hormones could be a big factor in all of this. take a few months and get on a normal cycle. Maybe talk to you Dr about it. They might be able to help to if its a "mood" thing or if its something more serious. I just got help from my Dr and she perscribed me some new "happy pills" and I have only been on them for a month but they are helping and sometimes all we need is a little help.
I am going to talk to my doctor in a couple of weeks. I have an apt July 12 to get checked out and I am going to bring this up to her. That is good that they are helping you. I might do that and see if she can prescribe me some "happy pills" and it might get me back into my normal self or close to it.