Can I demand for her to call us if she wants an I phone?

My adult step daughter lives far from us and even do we pay her cell phone she never calls. Now she called me 3 times in one day because her phone breakdown and she want to upgrade to an I phone. Is it ok to demand that she calls us sometimes if she want the upgrade?

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        06/30/14
        Melissa Middleton
        It sounds like she is using you all. If she were mine, I would stop paying for it if she is behaving that way--her being an adult in all. But, if not, I do believe she should at least call you all.
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