I am not one to put my dirty laundry out there but I need to vent to someone. My husband and I have been at each other for a few days over his parents. My husband has a sister and to sum it up as much as possible, our family is dirt under his parents feet when it comes to her and her kids. I have watched them treat my husband like crud for 10 years and they do the same to my kids and I have hit my breaking point and no longer want to make an attempt with them. My husband understands but won't see his family without me. I don't want to be the reason he doesn't see them but I also can't watch what goes on any longer. And the fact that my husband acts like everything is a garden of roses when he is around them drives me up the wall. What is it going to take for him to put his foot down with them and stand up for us? I just can't stand back and condone it any longer so now I am the bad guy?