the dreaded talk
Gary said "we are going to have to talk about our lack of sex life soon"
im freaking out!!!! i dont know how to even begin to explain to him that i just dont feel up to sex..... im a single mother 2/3rds of the time and im tired, emotionally and physically. he'll never understand, he will just blame himself and tell me that he is trying. and i know he is. but its not his fault sex is just not in me....
sigh what do i do :(
I fully agree with Debi. Sometimes with me it's not so much that I'm not into sex, just that things might feel a bit rushed and the intimacy of it all is lacking.
Wish you the best, these talks are necessary but rarely easy.