Are you the jealous type?
I don't even know for sure what constitutes the jealous type. According to your own definition of "the jealous type", are you? Is your spouse?
I don't consider myself the jealous type. That said, I do have expectations for how I am treated. If you behave in a way that is disrespectful I will tell you. I won't accuse, I will just say "I feel like you were flirting with..." or whatever and let them know it made me uncomfortable.
Are you the jealous type? Is your partner?