Really stupid question for you ladies.

I have been talking to someone that I was with before I got with my daughter's father. Here is the question, is it wrong to have more feelings towards the other guy then for my daughter's father?? I feel like I am not in love with Ashley's dad anymore.

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            Well, is it over between you and daughter's Dad? If it's a separation, as long as both of you are clear on what that entails like okay to date others and what those dates may/may not look like. If you 2 are trying to work things out, I strongly recommend counseling because adding a 3rd person to the mix is just asking for more confused and complicated feelings. If you're upfront with this other guy and he knows you could be vulnerable right now, I hope you take things slow.

            If it's completely over between you and daughter's Dad and both have agreed to no reconciliation, then what you do with your love life is your business alone :-) I can understand the uncomfortable or guilty feelings. That is something that you'll need time to explore and to be okay with.

            Best of luck and keep us posted!
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              I would try to limit my talking with said guy to try to work out your feelings for your SO. I agree with what Brandy said. I think it is important to try to work it out with your SO but if you really find that your love is gone then you need to be happy too. I do think that after having a baby it's hard on a relationship because I am in the position where I wonder about my relationship and if I do love him. It worries me but I believe it's because of the stress of my first child.
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              About Nikki Novatin
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              My name is Nikki. Have 2 adorable daughter's named Ashley that is 3 and Theresa that is 3 months. Been a stay at home mom since I have had Ashley.