One of my pet peeves is when people tell me I spoil my children by doing things that most parents practicing attachment parenting do. Picking them up when they cry, breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, etc. Well my HUSBAND pulled that card this morning. GGGRRRR!!!! He said she is spoiled because Im still breastfeeding her and she's still sleeping in our bed. He says that those kinds of things are the reason she acts out the way she does......uuuummmmm, NO! She's almost in the terrible twos and she's learning to express herself and assert for the things she wants. All kids go through this phase some are just worse than others.