I went to the bar last night

Well I managed to go last night and meet up with the guy I wanted to. I went there a little after 10 and stayed until last call. I was drinking vodka and I was feeling pretty good, I don't even feel sick today or anything so good thing right?

Well he was playing pool so I watched them guys play pool, he bought all my drinks and gave me a ride home, he's my friends older brother and I like him. I was only 17 when I got with my ex but I'm 29 now so I'm more grown up. I think he wanted to ask me out last night but I'm not sure because he didn't say anything but I get the hint that he really likes me and I really like him so things might start moving here soon I dunno yet.

After I broke up with my ex I said to myself that I wouldn't get involved with another guy but I think I might be changing my mind. I've known this guy for about 15 years and his sister is my friend so it's not like I don't know him or just met him.

Oh well, don't want to rush myself into anything either. Maybe he will ask me out.

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8Cassandra SmithBay City, Michigan
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8Cassandra Smith
He's pretty nice, about 6'0" and not fat or anything, he's in pretty good shape. He has a great personality, he's funny, doesn't talk too loud or anything. He's a cook at a local restaurant here so he has a job and everything which is always nice.

I would love to open the communication up more so I think I'm going to text him that now :) thanks for the advice.
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Thanks. He texted me back already, he said, your welcome anytime I hope you had fun last night and I would love to go out to get something to eat with you later if your not doing anything.
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I texted him back and said yup I would love to get something to eat with you. I'm waiting for his text back.
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    He just texted me back and said he'll pick me up around 5 or so and we can go hang out and get something to eat tonight. Can't wait, omg I might be in love again.
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      8Cassandra Smith
      Thanks, I need to be happy again and this guy is the guy that is going to make me happy I think.
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        We were at a biker bar, he was shooting pool with some of his friends and they were playing music on the jukebox. He had a few drinks and he bought all my drinks. It was nice and I liked being with him and had fun. My friend kept telling me to talk to him and now I am.

        I don't even know how I should dress, we're only going to Applebee's so it's not too fancy or anything. He called me back and told me that I can come back to his place after we eat if I want, omg I'm feeling pretty good all of the sudden.
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          I just got dressed he told me he's going to pick me up at 5:30. I'm wearing jeans, a nice top and sandals, sounds good to me hehe.

          I know it I'm excited I think if he asks me out I don't know how I'm going to react.
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            8Cassandra Smith
            Crap I wish I would of took a selfie.
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              Hehe ok, I didn't even think about taking a pic. I'm just so excited things are working out for me.
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                He picked me up at about 5:30 and we went to Applebee's, there wasn't much of a line or anything and we got waited on fast enough. We both ordered our drinks and then ordered our food, we talked while we were waiting for our food. He is really a great guy and I think things are starting to heat up with us even though we've only been out together twice. We have known each other for 15 years though and I never knew he liked me so I was always shy around him, but when his sister told me he likes me I thought to myself I like him too what do I do I'm single and have four kids, after he told me he was fine with me having kids that made me feel more comfortable. We're going to go to his apartment, he has four kids too but they are with their mom this weekend. It's the opposite here, I'm the one with the custody of the kids and their dad gets to see them every other weekend, with him he has custody and his kids get to see their mom every other weekend. So we're alone and I think I like this.
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                  Yup, I have four (three girls and a boy) and he has four (two of each).
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                  Current: Bay City, Michigan
                  Birth: October 26
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