Strange Teenagers....

We live on a dead end street, where everyone pretty much knows everyone, whether we like it or not lol. My ex husband and I share a mutual "friend" who just so happens to live on the same street as me. I visit her sometimes though I'm not entirely fond of her. I go so my daughter can spend some time with her son, who is the same age as my daughter.

Also, my oldest brother, his wife, and his daughter all live in our barn. Yes, you read that right lol. Our landlord turned our barn into a small, one bedroom flat. And my brother moved in. So needless to say, we see them a lot. Well, my niece is 15. And honestly, the longer she lives here, the more I find out about her that I don't want to know. All I have to say is, teenagers these days are strange. She brings strange friends around, who say and do strange things. Listen to strange Korean music that they can't understand and watch strange Korean anime. Is all of this strange enough for you?

Well, she's had a friend stay over the last couple of nights. She's quiet, but nice. But after all of the "girl on girl" horror stories I've been hearing floating around this neighborhood involving my niece and her "friends", it makes me uncomfortable to be around them, not gonna lie. And to make matters worse, her friend just looked at me today and said, "you're pretty".

I'm bisexual, so girls being with girls doesn't necessarily bother me, but when you're 15 years old and you're related to me, it just freaks me out a bit. That's a whole part of your life I didn't need to know about.

The mutual friend down the street knows my niece, and has let my niece in her house a few times, even with her friends. She's told me my niece and her friends just touch each other and kiss on each other the whole time and it just sends chills down my spine cuz it's like hearing about my little sister doing sexual things with other girls, or just people in general lol. She gets on websites too and looks at naked guys and girls with her friends and it's just gross.

I don't know how to feel about it. I wanna be there and be supportive of my niece while she goes through this awkward time in her life, but at the same time I just want to stay away from her.

Anyone else ever had this problem?

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    07/14/14
    8Theresa Gould
    Not with the sexual stuff but I have teens who like Japanese anime. They like The Fullmetal Achimist series, both book and TV series.
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      07/15/14
      None of that really bothered me until I read this part:

      "The mutual friend down the street knows my niece, and has let my niece in her house a few times, even with her friends. She's told me my niece and her friends just touch each other and kiss on each other the whole time and it just sends chills down my spine cuz it's like hearing about my little sister doing sexual things with other girls, or just people in general lol. She gets on websites too and looks at naked guys and girls with her friends and it's just gross."

      Someone needs to have a talk with this girl about safe sex. It doesn't matter if you are having sex with males or females, you still need to protect against STD's. And someone needs to let her momma know she's looking at naked guys online.

      And how old is mutual friends son? She's letting teen girls into her house and allowing them to make out? Ummm....
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