I dont know why i am not pregant yet..

.i have been trying for almost a year now with my husband (who is the same man i had my first child with) and we arent getting anywhere... i am 21, and he is 28 we are both healthy, and keep up with ourselves. i am TRYING not to be concerned and freak out, but i dont know why this is so hard the second time around when we got pregnant right off the bat the first time around. Advice?

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    07/15/14
    4Katie
    Do you track your monthly cycle?
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      07/15/14
      8Theresa Gould
      I am sorry it is taking so long this time around to conceive. Has life been stressful lately? Sometimes stress can hinder conception. Many have said, like Brande, once they stopped trying and relaxed they got pregnant. Have you mentioned your concerns to your doctor? Have they had any tips?
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        07/15/14
        Kate- I keep a steady eye on my cycles, and make sure to write them down every month. I even use an app too help me make sure I follow them correctly. But, i tend to not be quite "regular." So it seems to be a little harder to make sure its correct.

        Theresa- I did have a few stress filled months in between with being a newly wed and some other things happened. I didn't know that would effect things in a big way. The most stressful thing is that I am not pregnant yet. Not only for me, but also my husband. I haven't mentioned this to a doctor yet, i was waiting too see if it would just happen, and if it hadn't by the year mark i was going to bring it up.
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        07/15/14
        8Theresa Gould
        That sounds like a good plan. I would also mention to your doctor that you are not quite regular either to see if they have some tips or you could start tracking ovulation with an ovulation kit or strips. Others here on Moms.com have used them.
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          07/23/14
          Trust, turn it over to the one above and enjoy your husband. Stop focusing so much on creating and focus on the fun. I remember my grandmother telling me once, that every time my grandfather hung is pants on the bed post. She got pregnant. There were 13 children in all, one whom happen to be my father. lol Relax, spice it up, have some fun, when you let go, you just maybe surprise at what happens.
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          Hello, I'm Mirinda. I am 21 years old, and i have a 3 year old daughter. she is my life, my love, and my rock. I am rather sarcastic, and quite fun to be around. I am a work maniac, and love going with my friends. im not perfect...