Ready for babies, but you husband not??

I am so ready for babies, but my husband doesn't want to fall for it, he says our finances are not enough etc etc. I was ready two years ago and then he said no, we can try in two years time, and now its been two years and he still doenst want to. he doesn't even like talking about one day when we have kids, and all those exciting things to talk about. I don't know what to do anymore......

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    07/16/14
    Same here. I am married during 6 years now and we still dont have babies - because of my hubby. I'm totally ready and talking to him about babies each time I see one (or even think about one).
    You know... I'm sure he'll be an excellent father - he is caring, tender and responsible, but he just doesnt want any changes in his life. Men are not as flexible as woman if talking about changes - he can not control it, it is not for him).
    Just try to show him all advantages ... And do it!))
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      07/16/14
      Mariya, friends of us are trying to get pregnant now and the other couple don't have kids, but they are not even married. he is 26
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      07/16/14
      Oh, he is so young... My hubby is 30, and he is not ready. He wants baby - but "not right now". But you know, we are women and we rock in this case - if you want baby and he loves you, you should try to get pregnant.
      I just try to be ready myself and not pressure him in the hope that it will happen one day).
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        07/16/14
        Thanks Mariya, I was so scared the women were going to say I must respect his decision, which I do but really I mean come on, you will never be financialy ready for a little one, and why not, its nice when you are young then you grow old with your kids.
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          07/17/14
          I have spoken to him, but the whole thing is he wants me to stay at home with the kids, so I told him it doesn't matter, I am willing to get a half day job then I am at least with baby everyday from 1 o clock. so I spoke hard to him, will see what he says, I told him I want to know the reasons why he doesn't want to. Hope I get a positive answer back :(
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            07/17/14
            Well I must say he said we can talk about it, so sounds quite positive. M y work also said that they can look into making my work a half day job. So it seems things are falling into place hopefully. hold thumbs for me
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              07/21/14
              I agree that I don't think anyone is ever 100% ready. I actually think there's a topic in Mom's Expertise about this, where almost every woman who replied said she didn't think you could be *truly* ready for such a big change.

              Just keep talking to him. Maybe Debi's method of a counselor would help. We all have our fears with this.

              Good luck to you. I'm sure it'll all work out.
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                07/28/14
                im sorry to hear that babies are wonderful but try to see it his way he might not be ready for a huge commitment that comes with a huge responsibility give him time and try to save money for when the baby does come good luck
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