Ready for babies, but you husband not??
I am so ready for babies, but my husband doesn't want to fall for it, he says our finances are not enough etc etc. I was ready two years ago and then he said no, we can try in two years time, and now its been two years and he still doenst want to. he doesn't even like talking about one day when we have kids, and all those exciting things to talk about. I don't know what to do anymore......
You know... I'm sure he'll be an excellent father - he is caring, tender and responsible, but he just doesnt want any changes in his life. Men are not as flexible as woman if talking about changes - he can not control it, it is not for him).
Just try to show him all advantages ... And do it!))
I just try to be ready myself and not pressure him in the hope that it will happen one day).
Just keep talking to him. Maybe Debi's method of a counselor would help. We all have our fears with this.
Good luck to you. I'm sure it'll all work out.