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i need to calm down and relax but i honestly cant i need to get away from everyone exept my husband and daughter but i can im always so bummed out and hostel cause im stressed out and its so bad for baby and i just cant help it :(

i need to move and my inlaws offerd to give the kids their own room but my father inlaw has a abusive past and im too scared to move in with my kids buut we really need the space, and its cleaner there and i really dont know what to do :(

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      hey mama, hang in there. I was in a similar situation. have you contacted DHS (Dept of Health and Human Services)? they might be able to get you into emergency housing asap. do you have a back up in the meantime like a friend's house until you guys can get into your own housing? Listen to your gut instincts - if you feel it's unsafe/unhealthy to be at IL's no reason to stress out even more.

      you might also call 2-1-1 from your cell phone and ask about emergency housing. let them know the situation. they should be able to give you a bunch of resources.
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      there isnt any and we need long term we hadnt moved yet to my inlaws theirs is clean its just idk if its safe but we dont actually have any other option besides where i currently live which stresses me out i get yelled at and nagged and bitched at by a old hagg my gma its so miserable and she has ruined my pregnancy shes always negitive and naggy she blames everyone for her problems but mostly me and we have 0 space for two kids. She is the biggest stress to me
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            8Theresa Gould
            Sounds stressful. I hope things work out for you to have more space but unless your fil has changed considerably I wouldn't risk staying there , if I were you.
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              if you've already made all the phone calls to agencies for the intakes to get you into emergency or transitional housing, I guess that's all you can do at the moment. as for keeping your stress level at check for the baby's sake, try doing some visualization techniques like imagining healthy cells growing inside your body and inside your baby, visualize a bright light in the center of you and your child.
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              Birth: May 02
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              Spook I was a teenager when I first got pregnant I got married after my second I work and take care of my family currently me n my husband are planning our third