going to miss them but happy at the same time

My kids are leaving to spend he summer with their dad and mother today. They will be there for 6 weeks with every other weekend with me and my husband. Is it bad that i am happy that they are going?? I know i will miss them and worry about what they are doing but i know the other parents are good parents but i still worry

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4AllenaRockford, Illinois
07/18/14
4Allena
just the summer thing they spend 6 weeks with me and see the other parents every other weekend and then tables reverse for the other 6 weeks then they come home for school
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    07/18/14
    8Theresa Gould
    I think what you are feeling is normal. Are all four going? Do you have plans while they are gone? I think I'd be doing a complete house sweep, if all of mine were gone for any length of time. :)
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    07/18/14
    4Allena
    all but Sophia she lives with mommy and daddy its my other 3 and i do plan on doing a sweep of the house getting rid of toys deep cleaning shampooing carpets and beds and everything else
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      07/18/14
      4Allena
      its not as bad as you would think it will just take some time to get use to them not being here 7 days a week this is the second time we have done it this way and it was us that set it up not the courts. we know there will be a time that the kids wont want to go oer anymore because they will be making plans with friends or be working or other things so i rather have them spend as much time with them and me before that time comes
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      About Allena
      Born: Belvidere, Illinois
      Current: Rockford, Illinois
      Birth: September 11
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      Hello i am a stay at home mother of 4. One with ADHD and ODD. Life is difficult but manageable. I try my hardest to give my children what they need and want. I love to read books and spend all the time i can with the kids.