Just mad!

Its kinda strange I have been feeling mad but it not about losing the baby. That made me cry for 3 hours then I felt a lot better.Then I gave my baby a name and told God he can take the baby to heaven now.I guess thats my way of letting go of it.The thing that made me mad was I told my husband we lost the baby and he wasn't bothered by it very much no crying nothing.I thought I married a sensitive man. But im not sure where that went.

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    07/23/14
    I'm so sorry you are going through this. Men are funny creatures. I know when I had my miscarriage it didn't seem to bother my husband very much at the time but we didn't know I was pregnant until I had the miscarriage. But almost 3 years later he still talks about it.
    I'm glad to hear you have found a way to grieve. I love that you gave the baby a name and talked to God...that is so sweet! Cry as often as you need too, tears are so healing.
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    Well I think every one has there own way of letting go. And I named the baby Chris marin Harmon. The name Chris means follower of Christ. The baby was to young to know if it was a boy or girl so that name works for both. And if it was a girl the name Christina means the same thing. I know running to go is a lot better then running from him.I do want to have more baby's but that's in Gods hands not mine.And I know Gods going to be taking care of him or her till I get to heaven. I know its ok to be sad and thats where all of my baby's are going some day. Chris just got there before the rest of us did.
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    07/23/14
    That is a great way to look at it. I love the name! There are so many things in life that just don't make sense and the only thing we really can do is just trust God and know that the same hands that hold baby Chris hold you as well.
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      07/23/14
      Oh Tiffany.. sending SO much love your way!

      It's okay to be mad and deal with the loss exactly as you like.. it's even okay to be mad about how your husband is or isn't reacting. But remember, men tend to deal with anger and sadness very differently from us.. perhaps try to talk to him about it.. you might realize it's really hurting him but he doesn't know how to let his guard down.
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      About Tiffany Harmon
      Current: Bullhead City, Arizona
      Birth: May 24
      On Moms.com since: Jan 3, 2014
      I am a christian stay at home mom. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now. And on 11/07/2013 we had are first baby.