Did anyone's husband/boyfriend help with your baby in the night?
Honestly, my husband never did. I didn't blame him because he worked very hard to support our family and he needed sleep. However, I was very tired from all the breastfeeding, colics and cooking/laundry that I had no energy at all to do something for myself like a pedi. Plus I was a full-time students and sometimes I was like: really, can you help me once in awhile? But he never did.
When I was pregnant, hubby and I were discussing us BOTH getting up, so no one felt taken advantage of, no arguments, etc. Sure, it would suck for both of us, but that's one less variable.
Let's see how that works since he's SO difficult to wake up though...