my baby is back!!

I am so happy that my baby is back home!Now all feels right having both my children home together again..I never want her to leave for that long again..The sad part is she will be leaving again this Wednesday for a few hours for dinner with her dad then again for the weekend with him after being gone a month..We have never done this rediculous stuff before, until he decided to be a a**hole..After almost 6 years of a routine we were both happy with he had to have it changed just to make me mad..He realy angers me and I'm not looking foward to dealing with him for 10 more years till she turns 18...Ugg, why me?

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    07/28/14
    It's a very complicated situation..She likes being with him but she also doesn't like him putting her in the middle of things or changing up her routine just to cause problems..I deal with him for her cause I have to but I will never like it..I like to vent but I am an adult about things and am peaceful for her..now he's the one that makes her uncomfortable when we she has both of us around..This is very hard for me but I do it for her...This man can't fight his own battles.If I have my own opinion and don't agree with him he takes me to court to get his way.I think that is stupid and unnecessary..And I have been threatened to have harassment charges filed on be just because I had a conversation with his mom.Didn't know that was a crime.So like I said it's very complicated..It would take me forever to explain everything that has made me feel this way
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      07/28/14
      So glad you got her back! I hope you get things figured out and he mellows out. Definitely keep a record, just in case you need it.
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        07/28/14
        Thanks, I have tried to keep a record in the past, but it has never done me any good..I know it sounds crazy but it's like he has everybody paid off. Cause I never ever win, even when it's so obvious that he is in the wrong..I never went through crap like this with my oldest daughters father.He had respect for me..I miss him so much!He passed away almost 6 years ago and I miss him everyday..He also would always help me through all the crap this one puts me through.
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        About Melissa
        Born: Newport, North Carolina
        Current: Newport, North Carolina
        Birth: August 14
        On Moms.com since: Jul 7, 2014
        a stay at home single mom of two girls. Dashawna who is 15 (the big 16 on the 16th of this month) and Kayla who is 8..I love my girls with everything I have!