My hubby has to have shoulder surgery on his right shoulder ten days before lo's one year birthday party. We are thinking about changing the party to the Saturday before the surgery.
On top of it all he may not get paid for the first week and he only works two weeks it off the month. So we may not even bbq. We may just do cake and ice cream with a smash cake for lo. I don't think we will be able to afford to feed ten people.
Aw.. that sounds like a great idea.. keeping him in mind.. he would probably enjoy not recovering during a Birthday party :)
Nope... He doesn't see a need to reschedule but said whatever you want to do. I did not think we should spend the money feeding about ten people. I am thinking about the fact that if he goes back to work after two weeks we will be missing $2000 and if he doesn't then we will only be getting 70% of his pay. He says we can still have the bbq. He doesn't see it as me looking ahead and trying to save for that shortage of money. He pops off that I care more about money than his shoulder. So I guess we are still feeding ten people and having a bbq. On top of the birthday we have school supplies to buy for a fourth grade and school clothes.