No Respect

Twice, or more, I've explained to my Hubby's family members not to post pics of me in the hospital after birth, yet they fail to listen. I was not asked before it was posted, either. To me, this is a private and personal moment, not for the entire world to view. I have told them, repeatedly, what should I do next? I am not trying to sound rude or mean, but they fail to understand--instead, doing as they please.

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Melissa MiddletonPennington Gap, Virginia
    08/07/14
    4Katie
    I would report the picture to Facebook. It is a picture of you and you did not give permission for it to be posted. I am sorry they are not respecting your wishes.
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    08/07/14
    Melissa Middleton
    I did, I've done it to several. It is now starting to irk me.
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    08/07/14
    4Katie
    If you have another baby maybe consider not allowing those people visit you in the hospital. It is not ok for them not to respect your wishes.
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      08/07/14
      I would just keep reporting them and then maybe remind them not to put those pics of you up.
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        08/07/14
        Melissa Middleton
        Thank you, all. I try to be polite and nice as possible, but I just find it inappropriate. I will try to tell them, again, and maybe not allow anyone in the room until I am not in a gown with a tired, sweaty face. Lol
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          08/08/14
          Melissa Middleton
          Well, I politely asked her and.......she cursed me, said horrid things, claimed I control my husband (which is funny because he doesn't listen to me 90% of the time--and he will admit to this), said his ex-wife (who cheated on him several times while he was at work and away with the military) was a better wife and sister-in-law. She is mad because he doesn't get on Facebook or hardly call her. He said she is too dramatic, which is why he doesn't and it causes him stress. She said I was keeping my son from her. She lives in Arkansas! LOL!
          When she came down here, twice, she saw him both times. I am literally confused about all of this. Her and I were getting along and then she went psycho. She said I cannot tell her what to do. And then she got mad because I reported and removed the photo. It was a photo of me! It wasn't a photo of her...it was a photo of me. And she gets mad over it? She said the antibiotics she is on makes her angry and that wasn't a good time to ask her to do something. She totally flipped. I was in tears. I didn't respond to her so she kept attacking me. I removed and blocked her. This has happened before, her unruly behavior. I have forgiven her several times. I forgive her this time as well, but I no longer will have contact with her.

          I do not like stress and drama. I know I sound dramatic in this but, I tried with her. I don't want my hubby not talking to his sister over this but he has made the decision. :(
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          About Melissa Middleton
          Current: Pennington Gap, Virginia
          Birth: April 13
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          Mother of an active son, a precious baby girl, & a diva step-daughter (who lives with us). I am an artist, baker, organic gardener, frugal liver, & a Christian--happily married to my best-friend. Blogger at www.chasingwildhorses.com