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Why is it my ex is trying to make me look like a bad person for wanting to meet him at 11 tomorrow so he can drive 6 hours on 95 to Jersey with a 9 month old cramped up in a car without her mother? He wants me to meet him at 10 so he can stop and get out at his place so she can nap and he can change her diaper. What the hell is an hour difference going to make!?! He's taking her away from me for a week anyway. I hope she makes his life a living hell and bites his sister in the face. One day I will grow up and mature. Nah.... It's more fun not acting my age. He doesn't act his. But on a serious note, he really manipulated the conversation last night to make me feel bad about having Harper in the car for 6-8 hours tomorrow! How is this possible!?! What did I do to deserve this!

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    08/08/14
    No. The day after I got out of the hospital... When he should have been making Harpers first drs appt, he was busy setting up a paternity test. Keeping in mind I had a c section, and the day after he got the results back his sister had a package delivered to my house to Harper Ann c/o the Stewarts (my parents last name), not even once recognizing me and me as her mother. the ONE time his family met her back in November when she was less than a month old, they didn't even bother to say hi to me, not even his 11 yr old nephew. Talk about a k-lassy family. So I apologize if I seem to bash him and his family in most of my posts. Just complete trash.
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      08/08/14
      I by no means go to church everyday or every week for that matter but I do believe in him and I do believe that he for some unknown reason chose Jeff and I to be Harper's parents and that he only gives us what we can handle, right!?! Maybe a Sharknado will hit the jersey shore while his family is laying out but Harper is at home asleep so she will be safe and sound! Like the infamous Kelly Osbourne scene!
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        08/08/14
        8Theresa Gould
        Doesn't sound like a great start to your weekend. :( Sorry you have to deal with Jeff and his family, but you are right, God made you two Harper's parents for a reason. I hope you both can learn to co-parent civilly for Harper's sake and that his family can allow the two of you to do what you need to for Harper.
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          08/08/14
          Thanks Theresa. One day we will get there. Nothing in life comes easy, but that doesn't mean I'm not up for a challenge especially when it comes to takin care of my baby girl. But I swear if I EVER find out they start bad mouthing me in front of her, I will make sure I will be part of all of their visitation or there will be none... Oh by the time she's 4 and starts repeating everything will be so much fun :-). And he will be sad and lonely and I will be happy and have moved on.....
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