Sexuality= born with or not?

There is a debate about whether we are born with our sexual preferences or if we evolve into who we are going to be.

I am firmly in the camp that we are born with specific likes and dislikes. I don't think we decide our core likes and dislikes, but as we get older we flesh out the specifics. For instance, you may know that you like men but you don't know until you are older that you like facial hair and blue eyes. But you always knew you found men attractive, not sexually at a young age, but you knew you envisioned yourself with one when you thought about yourself at an older age.

What are your thoughts on this topic?

    Interesting, I think you grow accustom to your preference as you grow.
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