What to do? Suggestions?

So I'm trying to figure out what I should do for tomorrow Monday. I have all the paperworks ready for my work and I don't know if I should drop them or email them. I really don't want to go into work because it will stress me out a lot. I can already see my boss being very upset about me taking 2 1/2 weeks off. I don't want to let her or anyone makes me feel certain way. I've been thinking of just email them my paperworks and hope for the best. There's nothing that I can do if my OB doctor wanted me to stay home and rest. My baby is very important to me since I had a stillborn baby last time. My family is supporting me 120% in this because they want to make sure my baby is healthy. What do you think I should do? My mind is heading towards emailing all the paperworks to HR and my boss so I don't have to face them since they sent a threaten email about how I might lose my job. I'm avoiding as much stress as possible because I don't want anything bad happen to my baby.

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    08/10/14
    kandi
    i think you should email them only cause i was once in that situation and its the nursing field and i went into work and she was going on and on about my schedule and if i miss alot of days and this and that in the end i lost a baby at work because i wasnt careful at all and wasn't thinking about me when i got pregnant after that i was all about me and the baby first and i ended up have a beautiful baby boy and when i left all i could think was wow i should have not came in because i could have dealt without the negative conversation and you and your family are right worry about the baby that's whats important i let them know that's all that was important too me i can find another job being in that field but i would never forgive myself if something had happened too my baby because i didn't listen too the doctor i too experienced a still born before i got pregnant with this one and i am not taking any chances at all i am looking through all the fine print and looking through all negativity and only thinking about me and this baby only positive things only so i would say go with what you think is right in the end of something happen those ppl will only look a you and say sorry not really knowing the hurt that you feel because you didn't take your own advice
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    08/10/14
    You're right since I know there will be stress if I go into work. I rather avoid them because for the baby's sake. It's such a blessing that we are pregnant and I want to make sure this pregnancy go smoothly and the baby is happy and healthy! Thanks Kandi!
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      08/10/14
      I understand the stress part. Do you have somebody that could tag along? People, especially bosses, won't get near as confrontational if there's a witness. You need to do what is less stressful for you and baby.
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      08/10/14
      I really don't want to deal with it. The HR seems to be on my boss side which is fine but I don't need anymore stress from work.
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        08/10/14
        I think you should email them if you think your boss is going to be disrespectful to you... You don't need any more stress right now, definitely put you and baby first. No job is worth your and baby's health.
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