So does anyone else feel like thier husband has stopped showing affection after the baby?

My husband and I have only been married for 1 year this august. I am 22 years old and he is 23. we argue a lot and he has told me countless times that he wants to divorce. but then the next day he says he was just mad. He also said just today that he only married me because I had his baby. Keep in mind Skylar our daughter was not an accident. he wanted to have a baby! He is selfish and only cares about himself.I am not very close with mt family so the only person i have is him. And he uses that to his advantage. I dont know what else to do anymore! i feel so alone! he never tells me i love you, he barely touches me and i feel like a piece of trash that he feels like he can just throw away. Please tell me someone else is going or did go through something like this and they made it through the tunnel...! because i am about to give up!

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    08/20/14
    5Tabitha
    I'm sorry you are going through this. I can tell you all marriages go through rough patches and you have to figure out how to work through them. Sometimes that can't be done without the help of a counselor.

    You guys need to go see a marriage counselor and find the root of the problem if he can't be respectful and tell you without the mediator.
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      08/20/14
      Melissa Middleton
      I am so sorry he is treating you that way. You do not deserve to be treated this way. A marriage counselor would be the next step if you do not want a divorce.

      Honestly, honey, I do not appreciate the way he is treating you, and it makes me mad myself. A husband needs to respect and love his wife.
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        08/20/14
        8Theresa Gould
        I don't agree with how your husband is treating you, he is being selfish. I think it's hard for some men. They are competing for our love and affection. They can feel ousted so to speak. I agree with the others in that talking to him might help or seeking marriage counseling.
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