Breanikas doctors appointment
Breanika tore the paper they put on the doctor bed to confetti jumped around and all out acted naughty at the doctor. He still insists she's fine and will grow out of it. Were trying to find someone in the behavioral health field that will help without insisting she be admitted.
As for the fits, next time she starts hurting somebody, stay calm, wrap your arms and legs gently around her, hold her just tight enough that she wriggle, but not too tight that you are hurting her. And sing her favorite song. Calm her down, then while you (or hubby) are holding her so she has to look you in the face, talk to her. Make sure you have her attention. She has to know you aen't going to let it happen.
If that doesn't work, there has to be some sort of therapist that would be willing to help with ideas.